Oh blog, where art thou?

Excuse me for not posting any sooner! Its been a minute, and soooo much has happened. I sincerely apologize to my readers out there. (All 10 of you now!) :)



Let me update the diet and detox thingy:



Kahyla (super-woman accountability partner) and I have been killing it at the gym! As of today, I have lost 22 lbs! Whoop Whoop! I feel fabulous, and am beginning to see some major changes in my body. I've officially lost 2 pant sizes now, and I'm just gonna keep on going!



As for life: Let me just say I am taking on a whole new attitude about some things.



It's no secret...I'm divorced and single! And can I just say that I HATE this stupid dating game?!?! Really. Boys are just stupid. I guess people think that since you are recently divorced, you are only interested in one thing, and that is it. Excuse me, but I happen to be a person with feelings, and would enjoy a date or two! Sure, I am not ready for anything serious, nor do I want to jump from a marriage into a serious relationship, but I have to say that I cannot date multiple people at one time. I used to think I could, but recently just discovered otherwise.



And what happened to being direct and upfront with people? Some people are just wusses and can't say what they really feel. They can't just say...you know, I would rather keep this friendly, rather than lead you on thinking otherwise. Or some people don't really know what they want, and so they tend to try to keep you close, make you think they like you as more than a friend, and when things start to get "relationshipy" they bail. Whatever. I am just over all of it.



I don't ever want to give anyone the wrong impression of me again, so let me just clarify a few things:



1. I will not sleep with you. Especially on a first date! So don't try!

2. Old fashion dating is not out! If you are interested, ask! Don't be a wus!

3. I like to have fun, but that doesn't necessarily mean that I want to hang out at a bar the first time I go somewhere. Be original.

4. I am a deep-thinking person, so don't be afraid to ask questions. I will tell you my honest opinion. I will be upfront and direct. And telling you of these opinions doesn't mean I am planning a future with you.

5. Kissing me after a first date is ok. I'm not about rules with dating. As a matter of fact, if you are not a good kisser, chances are we will not go on a second date! Unless you are just amazing.

6. I have a big heart, and I am a giver! This means I am emotionally connected to all people, even if you are just a friend. Just because I am emotional doesn't mean that I'm in-love with you.

7. I hate games. I hate being tested! If you want to know how I feel about an issue...no matter how big or small...just ask.

8. I am not a jealous person, so don't keep trying to make me be. But there's a fine line between that and respect. I will respect you. I expect the same in return.

9. I am not one that thinks you have to call or text me every minute of every day. However, if you are interested in me, call me or text me. This goes back to the rules and games. Go with how you feel...not what "people" think you should do.

10. If you can make me laugh, we'll be friends forever!


So....there you have it again. Sorry for the bitter betty attitude!

Oh, one last thing....I found a place to ride a mechanical bull...and it is going to happen soon! Pics and details to follow.

Kisses to all my readers!